Once upon a time, several students expressed frustration about one of my class assignments.
If that sometimes fits you, read on.
Class advice: There is a reason why you have had this assignment for a month
and had no assignment due this week. Assignment 6 poses several challenges.
Life advice: "Frustrated" is a victim word. When you are frustrated, you
disclaim responsibility. You blame someone else (me, in this case) for your
circumstances, and you assume it is someone else's responsibility to get you
out of your circumstances. True, I made the assignment, I set the due date,
and I provided whatever resources I have provided. And maybe I'll help you
out, too.
Doug Green, a former Dean of Marquette's College of Engineering,
had a
motto, "Engineers find a way." Not in the "Ends justify the means" sense,
but in a "take responsibility" sense. We want to train you to be the sort
of person that when you have a problem, there is no one besides yourself you
would rather trust to figure out a way out. There is no point counting on
your boss to tell you everything you need to know. If she did that, why
does she need to pay you? She will pay you to find a (moral, feasible, and
economical) way.
The real lesson of this assignment is the process by which you find a way to
complete it.
In short, accept the responsibility for finding a way. Build a reputation
of being the engineer who offers no excuses why something is not working.
Some employers (a few wise ones) prefer GPAs around 3.3 - 3.5 to GPA >= 3.8+
because the 3.3 engineer is often a better problem-solver. The 3.8 engineer
encountered no problems, so did not learn to solve them. The 3.3 engineer
struggled, so learned to find ways to solve problems.
Don't be frustrated. Take responsibility for finding a way.
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